Monday, March 1, 2010

Mets Fans as Masochists

The good news... Today is the first day of actual baseball at Mets spring training. The bad news, see previous.

Back in October, I was talking World Series with a co-worker and our supervisor. Both are Yankee fans (of course!) and when I expressed my pain at the whole event they both looked at me with equal parts horror and pity. Oh dear, a Mets fan! My supervisor, a most brilliant clinician and renowned therapist, immediately offered up this nugget: Are Mets fans masochists? Cause why else would you root for a team that always loses?

Good question. Why do we do it?

A quick survey of the Mets blogosphere and twitterworld reveals this fact: Most of us were born this way. We were taught that rooting for the Mets was what one did as a baseball fan. Our parents (well, fathers, mostly) were fans; our uncles, our favorite teacher, the guy down the street. Yankee fans were probably brought up the same way (except those that jumped on the WS bandwagon). We're adults now, however. Why not switch allegiances? Wouldn't it be easier? As @HappyRecap puts it, "Why I remain (a Mets fan) is still a question". Are we addicted to the agony of being disappointed year after year?

A masochist is defined as someone who "chooses people and situations that lead to disappointment, failure and/or mistreatment..." Hmmm, sound familiar? We could debate this endlessly, and in fact, it may be a good subject for a research paper (are you listening, professional student and published scholar brother of mine?) "The Sociological Masochism of Mets Fans". Has academic potential, don't you think?

OK. So whatever the reason, here we are again. Spring is around the corner, baseball is under way, and we are once again filled with hope, despite all logic. My consolation thought is this:

We could be Cubs fans.

Till next time!

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